"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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X-BF in the way [PART 2]

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if you read my last thread, you'd know that my girlfriend constantly talks about her XBF, and has photos him him in her room..and recently said she was going to hang out with him..

well i had a talk with her and she said she won't hang out with him cuz she cares about me.. wht do u guys think...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now you gotta let her know that its not cool with you without sounding insecure.

And it DOES sound like your insecure about it, but i would be a bit too... i admit.

So i say, FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE!

Start carrying around a picture of an ex or a good looking female friend in your wallet, show it to her, ask her what she thinks of the girls style because you dig it alot.

Start talking about your ex girl or other chicks your seeing, she will get jealous trust me. She will either get the hint, or get pissed off about it and your relationship will turn sour in which case it doesnt matter because not seeing the ***** is better then seeing her and hearing about her douche bag ex/bf all the damned time.
 
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Well what'd you say? Get into specifics man. In order for us to help you, you gotta make us kinda get the feeling that we were actually there. Anyways, when she was making all these (possibly empty) promises, I would have said:

[INTERRUPTING HER] Stop telling me what you're going to do and show me. It's either him or me. I don't have time for games.

And if she's like "oh yeAh? you can't leave me!!" You'll just go, "try me." All with confidence of course. I mean, losing her isn't even counted as a loss. Kinda like dropping dead weight.

And sometimes they even go "you're just a control freak!!! yaaa!!!!" You calmly, but surely reply, "I'm a man and I don't take crap from anyone. If that's your definition of a 'control freak' then I guess I am one."
 
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riiiight so she's just gonna stop?

yeah i got fed the "i care about you a lot, you only get two important people in your life"

pshhh her actions will speak louder than her words ever will, in fact wait until she starts blowing you off saying stuff about emergencys or this and that happend.

:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go back to X-BF in the way [part1] and read all the posts again.

If you still want to hang out with her, it's your problem!
 
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If you stay with her - watch very closely for signs of her meeting or seeing her ex.

Don't do this in a crazy way - i.e. Mr. Snooper. but keep a look out.


1st sign of her meeting him - NEXT>
 
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