wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Can you send me a pm with your email Wyldfire? I need your help asap.
Cheers,
Cheers,
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wyldfire - I need your help
- Thread starter wheelin&dealin
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
shes been absent for a few weeks on here. you should send her a pm and it will notify her email account that she has a pm to come check.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
your mailbox is full whealin
i cant reply until you clean it out
i cant reply until you clean it out
Anything to do with this?:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81895&perpage=20&pagenumber=1
:yes:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81895&perpage=20&pagenumber=1
:yes:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Uh-oh, this is getting good... 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Yep. It is.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
do you want to bring it to discussion or leave it in pms?