wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Can you send me a pm with your email Wyldfire? I need your help asap.
Cheers,
Cheers,
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Wyldfire - I need your help
- Thread starter wheelin&dealin
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
shes been absent for a few weeks on here. you should send her a pm and it will notify her email account that she has a pm to come check.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
your mailbox is full whealin
i cant reply until you clean it out
i cant reply until you clean it out
Anything to do with this?:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81895&perpage=20&pagenumber=1
:yes:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81895&perpage=20&pagenumber=1
:yes:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Uh-oh, this is getting good... 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Yep. It is.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
do you want to bring it to discussion or leave it in pms?