"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WWDJD if a gay guy hit on him?

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Lead him on and manipulate him to giving you money and buying you things. Same thing you do when an ugly girl is chasing you - you know the drill. Juice them down to the bone and then kick it to the curb.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nice to see homophobia is alive and well. :rolleyes:

For the original poster, geez, don't worry about it. Gay guys are not going to pester you if they know you're straight. They might tease you a little, but if you can't deal with that then you have some issues yourself.

And most gay guys know VERY WELL who is straight and who is not. That's why they call it "gaydar".
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
Lead him on and manipulate him to giving you money and buying you things. Same thing you do when an ugly girl is chasing you - you know the drill. Juice them down to the bone and then kick it to the curb.
I hope you're joking, money isn't worth that much to me.
 
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