"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WTH is wrong?

Coffeebazooka

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Aye might be true that she felt that way but then she just disqualified herself from being a potential mate. Im not into the game of stealing girlfriends or being someone they cheat with. She were either sadistic and wanted me to suffer to get more self esteem or she was planning to cheat on her boyfriend, in either case she is a *****.

Cheers all for the help. It seems like the girls have changed a lot during these last 8 years, they have started acting more like men and having sex to the left and right a lot more than before. Im simply gonna stop aiming for a LTR and just stay pissed and treat them the way they want to be treated. Seems I have been living in some fantasy world this last year, women dont want relationships, they just want a big **** up their *****, get used and then thrown out and Im gonna give it to them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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loveshogun

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Easy there...

Coffeebazooka said:
Cheers all for the help. It seems like the girls have changed a lot during these last 8 years, they have started acting more like men and having sex to the left and right a lot more than before. Im simply gonna stop aiming for a LTR and just stay pissed and treat them the way they want to be treated. Seems I have been living in some fantasy world this last year, women dont want relationships, they just want a big **** up their *****, get used and then thrown out and Im gonna give it to them.
Take it easy, coffee. Both on yourself, and on them. Can't blame 'em for doin' what they wanna do. Same as no one can blame you for gettin' yours.

Anyway, just keep your head up. Your bad experience, sad to say, won't be your last. Even the gurus get bad experiences. But, it will help you learn, so it's not a total loss.

Keep those eyes open.
 
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