"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WTH is wrong?

Coffeebazooka

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Aye might be true that she felt that way but then she just disqualified herself from being a potential mate. Im not into the game of stealing girlfriends or being someone they cheat with. She were either sadistic and wanted me to suffer to get more self esteem or she was planning to cheat on her boyfriend, in either case she is a *****.

Cheers all for the help. It seems like the girls have changed a lot during these last 8 years, they have started acting more like men and having sex to the left and right a lot more than before. Im simply gonna stop aiming for a LTR and just stay pissed and treat them the way they want to be treated. Seems I have been living in some fantasy world this last year, women dont want relationships, they just want a big **** up their *****, get used and then thrown out and Im gonna give it to them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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loveshogun

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Easy there...

Coffeebazooka said:
Cheers all for the help. It seems like the girls have changed a lot during these last 8 years, they have started acting more like men and having sex to the left and right a lot more than before. Im simply gonna stop aiming for a LTR and just stay pissed and treat them the way they want to be treated. Seems I have been living in some fantasy world this last year, women dont want relationships, they just want a big **** up their *****, get used and then thrown out and Im gonna give it to them.
Take it easy, coffee. Both on yourself, and on them. Can't blame 'em for doin' what they wanna do. Same as no one can blame you for gettin' yours.

Anyway, just keep your head up. Your bad experience, sad to say, won't be your last. Even the gurus get bad experiences. But, it will help you learn, so it's not a total loss.

Keep those eyes open.
 
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