"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WTH?? Girls Getting Clingy.

PimpOfTheSouth

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The last two women I have talked to have gotten extremely clingy. After just a week both girls want a relationship and are calling me baby and all this stuff. How can I avoid this?? Im not into getting a relationship right now, any advice on how to work with this kind of situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speakeasy

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Don't see them more than once a week. Preferably on weeknights only.
 

Cinamon

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Be open with them right from the start, are you giving off the vibes that you want to be in a relationship?
 

Warrior74

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They are happy, and they want to keep the source of that happiness. This is where you want them to be.

This is why Player Supreme teaches you how to spit your contract to a chic to let her know what you expect and what you are looking for. Did you do that?

Also know this. If you do not commit to a square relationship (LTR) then she will eventually blow out (leave). They will eventually leave. I repeat. They will eventually leave. And date someone else, and might be bitter, or might try to rub it in your face, or date one of your friends, something to get a reaction from you. expect it.
 

Lust

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Cinamon said:
Be open with them right from the start, are you giving off the vibes that you want to be in a relationship?
Yup, pretty much it.

Be completely honest with yourself and ask yourself what it is that you want, WHY you want it, and how you should behave to achieve it.

Then, lay your sh*t out on the table, be 100% genuine about it.

I literally sit the girl down and tell her upfront exactly what i'm up for and what i'm not, e.g. not just simply a fvck buddy/awesome connection/great friend i can be down with without bs fake fluff/nothing relationshipy AT THE MOMENT.

It's important to be clear about what you want, but leave that little room for her hope to simmer. I find that if you are too brutal they leave before they've had the chance to invest in the relationship enough.

Yer, you lose some but the ones you keep are generally the most awesome girlfriends you'll have.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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By the way you were talking I guess I just assumed you were hittin both of them.. Generally once you start smashing guts, she's gonna get emotional and clingy, unless she is one of a VERY SMALL number of women who can handle sex without any feelings..
 
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