"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jimjam

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This is taken from my post, "Red Flags from POF" Figured it was dragging on a bit too long, but see below. Thanks

I can't understand it. The one I had a date with on Thursday has been texting me ever since. Fact, this morning she send me a text, "good morning." I answer her but tell her I'll call her later tonight as I'll be busy with my son all day. I texted her and I got these non-responsive answers. I suggested we meet this week but her response was totally non-committal. WTF???

And the one who is supposed to meet me tomorrow won't get back to me. I told her on Friday that I'd call on Sunday. I did. No response. Again, WF???

Anyway, I'm not chasing these women around. Fvck em if they don't get back to me. But, any ideas as to what may have happened, given the above detailed synopsis?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jimjam said:
This is taken from my post, "Red Flags from POF" Figured it was dragging on a bit too long, but see below. Thanks

I can't understand it. The one I had a date with on Thursday has been texting me ever since. Fact, this morning she send me a text, "good morning." I answer her but tell her I'll call her later tonight as I'll be busy with my son all day. I texted her and I got these non-responsive answers. I suggested we meet this week but her response was totally non-committal. WTF???

And the one who is supposed to meet me tomorrow won't get back to me. I told her on Friday that I'd call on Sunday. I did. No response. Again, WF???

Anyway, I'm not chasing these women around. Fvck em if they don't get back to me. But, any ideas as to what may have happened, given the above detailed synopsis?

Thanks
She has only been texting you for her own validation. Her other plates must have slowed down or went NC.

I think of this scenerio kinda like fishing in a big lake.

The other end of the lake she was fishing in, "the othe guys' end", either went dry and/or stopped biting her hook.

SO, she came over to your end looking for fish (validation from a man, that being you).

She cast her line and you bit but she never planned on reeling you in, she just wanted to see you bite to know you were still there.
 

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Read ur posts.
You are too wrapped up in this. It smells of lack of comprehension and desperation. Go back to fishing, these haven't taken the bait.

Suggest you keep some viagra/cialis/Levitra handy, take it before a date u think u will score. When kissing, rubbing, grinding, whatever foreplay you are doing, press that hard c*ck into her gently as you hug, etc. Make it incidental at first, then more as you move along.

Proximity. Women get turned on by the sure ness of what may happen. They get nervous too and get excited knowing a man is exited for them. Still shut down?
Leave . You at least know the drug will overcome your insecurity next time.

You of course will have to release urself..
 

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This **** will happen time and again when you're playing the game. Best thing to do is erase their contact info and go on like they never existed. If they reach out again, fine, the plot thickens. If not, don't waste an iota of energy wondering why.

If a girl isn't giving you what you want, ignore her. It is that simple.
 

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These POF slvts are getting offered dyck every second of every day. You're competing with thousands of other salmon all swimming upstream to spawn.
These bytches can afford to be flakey because they have so many options.
Don't be bitter, you're just going to have to up your game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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