"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jimjam

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This is taken from my post, "Red Flags from POF" Figured it was dragging on a bit too long, but see below. Thanks

I can't understand it. The one I had a date with on Thursday has been texting me ever since. Fact, this morning she send me a text, "good morning." I answer her but tell her I'll call her later tonight as I'll be busy with my son all day. I texted her and I got these non-responsive answers. I suggested we meet this week but her response was totally non-committal. WTF???

And the one who is supposed to meet me tomorrow won't get back to me. I told her on Friday that I'd call on Sunday. I did. No response. Again, WF???

Anyway, I'm not chasing these women around. Fvck em if they don't get back to me. But, any ideas as to what may have happened, given the above detailed synopsis?

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jimjam said:
This is taken from my post, "Red Flags from POF" Figured it was dragging on a bit too long, but see below. Thanks

I can't understand it. The one I had a date with on Thursday has been texting me ever since. Fact, this morning she send me a text, "good morning." I answer her but tell her I'll call her later tonight as I'll be busy with my son all day. I texted her and I got these non-responsive answers. I suggested we meet this week but her response was totally non-committal. WTF???

And the one who is supposed to meet me tomorrow won't get back to me. I told her on Friday that I'd call on Sunday. I did. No response. Again, WF???

Anyway, I'm not chasing these women around. Fvck em if they don't get back to me. But, any ideas as to what may have happened, given the above detailed synopsis?

Thanks
She has only been texting you for her own validation. Her other plates must have slowed down or went NC.

I think of this scenerio kinda like fishing in a big lake.

The other end of the lake she was fishing in, "the othe guys' end", either went dry and/or stopped biting her hook.

SO, she came over to your end looking for fish (validation from a man, that being you).

She cast her line and you bit but she never planned on reeling you in, she just wanted to see you bite to know you were still there.
 

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Read ur posts.
You are too wrapped up in this. It smells of lack of comprehension and desperation. Go back to fishing, these haven't taken the bait.

Suggest you keep some viagra/cialis/Levitra handy, take it before a date u think u will score. When kissing, rubbing, grinding, whatever foreplay you are doing, press that hard c*ck into her gently as you hug, etc. Make it incidental at first, then more as you move along.

Proximity. Women get turned on by the sure ness of what may happen. They get nervous too and get excited knowing a man is exited for them. Still shut down?
Leave . You at least know the drug will overcome your insecurity next time.

You of course will have to release urself..
 

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This **** will happen time and again when you're playing the game. Best thing to do is erase their contact info and go on like they never existed. If they reach out again, fine, the plot thickens. If not, don't waste an iota of energy wondering why.

If a girl isn't giving you what you want, ignore her. It is that simple.
 

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These POF slvts are getting offered dyck every second of every day. You're competing with thousands of other salmon all swimming upstream to spawn.
These bytches can afford to be flakey because they have so many options.
Don't be bitter, you're just going to have to up your game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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