"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Whoso would be a man, must be a nonconformist. He who would gather immortal palms must not be hindered by the name of goodness, but must explore if it be goodness. Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of our own mind. Absolve you to yourself, and you shall have the suffrage of the world."
-Emerson

you guys are all smart people.... can someone explain to me wut the hell this quote means?

TY in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its like the speech from Revenge of the Sith where Palpatine says to Anakin...

"Good is a point of view"

Basically what the quote means is trust only yourself to decide on what is good or not as every single person has their own definition of what that is, do not go along with the crowd just to get along with the crowd unless you really believe what the crowd is saying, be your own man not one of the herd and by doing so the world may follow you instead of you following it.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Its like the speech from Revenge of the Sith where Palpatine says to Anakin...

"Good is a point of view"

Basically what the quote means is trust only yourself to decide on what is good or not as every single person has their own definition of what that is, do not go along with the crowd just to get along with the crowd unless you really believe what the crowd is saying, be your own man not one of the herd and by doing so the world may follow you instead of you following it.
Monkey punch !! Anaconda Kick%&

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wow thats a nice description. TY SOO MUCH.
 

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on top of what Kontroller said, and basically repeating what he said :p It focuses alot on searching out the truth and standing for what you believe in... Just because an army of people believe one way doesn't make it true. You should seek the answers for yourself. Question things... Make your own choices.
... Being a man is expressing free will and a seeking mind. A real man is reasonable. It would be unreasonable to follow blindly everyone else, just assuming its right.

I've always liked Ralph Waldo Emerson.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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