"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Whoso would be a man, must be a nonconformist. He who would gather immortal palms must not be hindered by the name of goodness, but must explore if it be goodness. Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of our own mind. Absolve you to yourself, and you shall have the suffrage of the world."
-Emerson

you guys are all smart people.... can someone explain to me wut the hell this quote means?

TY in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Its like the speech from Revenge of the Sith where Palpatine says to Anakin...

"Good is a point of view"

Basically what the quote means is trust only yourself to decide on what is good or not as every single person has their own definition of what that is, do not go along with the crowd just to get along with the crowd unless you really believe what the crowd is saying, be your own man not one of the herd and by doing so the world may follow you instead of you following it.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Its like the speech from Revenge of the Sith where Palpatine says to Anakin...

"Good is a point of view"

Basically what the quote means is trust only yourself to decide on what is good or not as every single person has their own definition of what that is, do not go along with the crowd just to get along with the crowd unless you really believe what the crowd is saying, be your own man not one of the herd and by doing so the world may follow you instead of you following it.
Monkey punch !! Anaconda Kick%&

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wow thats a nice description. TY SOO MUCH.
 

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on top of what Kontroller said, and basically repeating what he said :p It focuses alot on searching out the truth and standing for what you believe in... Just because an army of people believe one way doesn't make it true. You should seek the answers for yourself. Question things... Make your own choices.
... Being a man is expressing free will and a seeking mind. A real man is reasonable. It would be unreasonable to follow blindly everyone else, just assuming its right.

I've always liked Ralph Waldo Emerson.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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