"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Whoso would be a man, must be a nonconformist. He who would gather immortal palms must not be hindered by the name of goodness, but must explore if it be goodness. Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of our own mind. Absolve you to yourself, and you shall have the suffrage of the world."
-Emerson

you guys are all smart people.... can someone explain to me wut the hell this quote means?

TY in advance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its like the speech from Revenge of the Sith where Palpatine says to Anakin...

"Good is a point of view"

Basically what the quote means is trust only yourself to decide on what is good or not as every single person has their own definition of what that is, do not go along with the crowd just to get along with the crowd unless you really believe what the crowd is saying, be your own man not one of the herd and by doing so the world may follow you instead of you following it.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Its like the speech from Revenge of the Sith where Palpatine says to Anakin...

"Good is a point of view"

Basically what the quote means is trust only yourself to decide on what is good or not as every single person has their own definition of what that is, do not go along with the crowd just to get along with the crowd unless you really believe what the crowd is saying, be your own man not one of the herd and by doing so the world may follow you instead of you following it.
Monkey punch !! Anaconda Kick%&

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wow thats a nice description. TY SOO MUCH.
 

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on top of what Kontroller said, and basically repeating what he said :p It focuses alot on searching out the truth and standing for what you believe in... Just because an army of people believe one way doesn't make it true. You should seek the answers for yourself. Question things... Make your own choices.
... Being a man is expressing free will and a seeking mind. A real man is reasonable. It would be unreasonable to follow blindly everyone else, just assuming its right.

I've always liked Ralph Waldo Emerson.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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