"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wtf..

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This is starting to piss me off, my success rate has been virtually zero lately.

Anytime I approach a chick, she seems alright at first and interested, but then slowly backs off. I've been using all of my old techniques.. the ones that have worked for me in the past.

I started talking to this one chick, started putting the moves on her.. then she LJBF'd me. But she said her friend (which isnt actually cuter than her) liked me and that I should go for it.. so I ask her out and see if she wants to hang (just us two..) and she never wrote me back.

So I don't know.. I'm under a dry spell right now? It's pissing me off..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ill probably get the blast for saying this. Read astrology, there are cycles for your sign, which affect everything you do. www.astrology.com


Some people cant stand astrology, others like me love it, and learned over the years what things actually mean; psyche follows astrological cycles.



Sounds crazy, so dont read it.
 

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I'm usually not one for paranormal or supernatural stuff.. but it seems interesting none the less, and maybe it will take my mind of this depression.

I'll check it out anyway.
 

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That astrology stuff is interesting...but dont believe it completely - it is funny though to see how it kinda fits a person you're trying to compare it to sometimes.

As for your dry spell, dont worry about it, keep trying...if you keep getting the same result, pay attention to what you're saying and how the convo is flowing - watch closely for her reactions, and try to take notice of when she starts to back off, and the avoid doing that.

DJin, like it or not, is a process - as you do it youll become more adept and be able to recognize similar situations youve run into before...and itll be like a walk in the park.

~WA
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes, look into the sky for your solution - the sky tells you your "SPECIFIC' solution and yet it applies to "ALL" 7 billion people on earthn!!!! :rolleyes:

The "specific" cannot apply to "all"!!! Wake up kid, The Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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thats just the general, there are much more in astrology and if u really interested its a wide subject to study on. and then you will understand the unique of each sign and play to your advantage. right now, our general sign(which people are always asking for your sign) are all our sun signs, we have many other signs, and not just one sign that tells us about our personality. Sun is just the appearance/outlook sign.
 
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