"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wtf..

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This is starting to piss me off, my success rate has been virtually zero lately.

Anytime I approach a chick, she seems alright at first and interested, but then slowly backs off. I've been using all of my old techniques.. the ones that have worked for me in the past.

I started talking to this one chick, started putting the moves on her.. then she LJBF'd me. But she said her friend (which isnt actually cuter than her) liked me and that I should go for it.. so I ask her out and see if she wants to hang (just us two..) and she never wrote me back.

So I don't know.. I'm under a dry spell right now? It's pissing me off..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ill probably get the blast for saying this. Read astrology, there are cycles for your sign, which affect everything you do. www.astrology.com


Some people cant stand astrology, others like me love it, and learned over the years what things actually mean; psyche follows astrological cycles.



Sounds crazy, so dont read it.
 

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I'm usually not one for paranormal or supernatural stuff.. but it seems interesting none the less, and maybe it will take my mind of this depression.

I'll check it out anyway.
 

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That astrology stuff is interesting...but dont believe it completely - it is funny though to see how it kinda fits a person you're trying to compare it to sometimes.

As for your dry spell, dont worry about it, keep trying...if you keep getting the same result, pay attention to what you're saying and how the convo is flowing - watch closely for her reactions, and try to take notice of when she starts to back off, and the avoid doing that.

DJin, like it or not, is a process - as you do it youll become more adept and be able to recognize similar situations youve run into before...and itll be like a walk in the park.

~WA
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, look into the sky for your solution - the sky tells you your "SPECIFIC' solution and yet it applies to "ALL" 7 billion people on earthn!!!! :rolleyes:

The "specific" cannot apply to "all"!!! Wake up kid, The Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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thats just the general, there are much more in astrology and if u really interested its a wide subject to study on. and then you will understand the unique of each sign and play to your advantage. right now, our general sign(which people are always asking for your sign) are all our sun signs, we have many other signs, and not just one sign that tells us about our personality. Sun is just the appearance/outlook sign.
 
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