ok.. i had what i thought a very successful immediate date last night, i met this hot air stewardess for a private airjet company who was in town for a couple days.. i immediately ran game on her, spoke spanish to her.. then her friend called her on skype so i stopped talking and she said 'no it's ok go on..' but she has already pressed the answer button on her ipad i felt awkward.
anyway when they finished convo i carried on where i left off, i was wary about being used or friendzoned as a guy who is from around town showing her the city.. i.e. tourist friendzoned afc. that is what i was most worried about and got me panicking. so i suggest we go to the bar down the road.. she's a bit wary cos im a stranger and cos i couldnt remember exactly where it was.. she calmed down when we got there realising i wasn't leading down some stray path.
we joked, i dhv'd etc.. c+f.. kino'd her tho she didn't kino me back till later.. tho she did test me like 'so how often do you come to spain?' i f'd up cos i didn't realise at the time she was tryna think if it would work long distance.. whereas i was thinking 'damn.. she's leaving tues.. i wodner if i can get a lay before she goes' as the date went on i was readying for kiss close and about to, but 2 things stopped me.. 1 i needed to brush my teeth and didnt have gum.. 2 the waitress kicked us out cos it was closing time (major c0ckblock). all that attraction i built up dipped as we had to leave and it was snowing.. i took her back to her hotel and when i said 'i dont have your number' she was about to give it to me but cos she was shivering i made us go into the reception and she kissed me on both cheeks and wouldnt kiss close me.. the gettign her number bit was drawn out and awkward. this is where i f'd up.. when i get overexcited i talk really really fast and panick.. and it creeps women out.. i could tell she wasn't feeling it at that moment.. i got a neew phone and didnt know how to save the number easily so i had ot get it twice.. i said i'd whatsapp her cos she has an international number.. and she said something about her phoen not working.. which made me immediately react thinking 'wtf is she pulling the 'oh my phone doesn't work line and giving me a fake number'' so i started to ask her questions about why her phone didnt work abroad.. anyway she said 'we'll get together for coffee tomorrow' i was thinking 'huh? coffee wtf do u have a bf or something... i know she wasn't married she told me that' and thats when she started to act bit shifty.. when i kissed her bye again.. she gave me an odd look like that look of 'im not interested anymore you're creeping me out'
so this morning i send her a message by sms, it doens't deliver (her story appears to be true assuming this even is her number..) so i paste it as a whatsapp msg (dumb move, even on an iphone a text which is more than 1 msg long looks way way too long for a whatsapp msg) and when i read it back i realise that if she was creeped out at the end by my overexcitedness and panickyness.. this text will look needy and desperate.. sent it at 9am, i said i finished work early and i'd meet her at hotel at 12 and take her out maybe dancing tonight too.. (basically a too long afc msg) i see she's online after couple couple hours and it delivers.. then i wrote 'actually meet me at the starbucks instead' as i realised she doesnt have any reception except wifi in starbucks. no response then i leave a further msg saying 'and make it a bit later, my dad needs to get the car fixed so i'll need to get the train. what time is good for you?' no response.. she's been online few times since.. (also the whatsapp messenger thing is more like an instant messenger so sending back to back msgs is the norm, it just looks like u pressed return too soon)
i guess i got used for a 20 dollar drink.. thoughts on this? it's over i guess?
anyway when they finished convo i carried on where i left off, i was wary about being used or friendzoned as a guy who is from around town showing her the city.. i.e. tourist friendzoned afc. that is what i was most worried about and got me panicking. so i suggest we go to the bar down the road.. she's a bit wary cos im a stranger and cos i couldnt remember exactly where it was.. she calmed down when we got there realising i wasn't leading down some stray path.
we joked, i dhv'd etc.. c+f.. kino'd her tho she didn't kino me back till later.. tho she did test me like 'so how often do you come to spain?' i f'd up cos i didn't realise at the time she was tryna think if it would work long distance.. whereas i was thinking 'damn.. she's leaving tues.. i wodner if i can get a lay before she goes' as the date went on i was readying for kiss close and about to, but 2 things stopped me.. 1 i needed to brush my teeth and didnt have gum.. 2 the waitress kicked us out cos it was closing time (major c0ckblock). all that attraction i built up dipped as we had to leave and it was snowing.. i took her back to her hotel and when i said 'i dont have your number' she was about to give it to me but cos she was shivering i made us go into the reception and she kissed me on both cheeks and wouldnt kiss close me.. the gettign her number bit was drawn out and awkward. this is where i f'd up.. when i get overexcited i talk really really fast and panick.. and it creeps women out.. i could tell she wasn't feeling it at that moment.. i got a neew phone and didnt know how to save the number easily so i had ot get it twice.. i said i'd whatsapp her cos she has an international number.. and she said something about her phoen not working.. which made me immediately react thinking 'wtf is she pulling the 'oh my phone doesn't work line and giving me a fake number'' so i started to ask her questions about why her phone didnt work abroad.. anyway she said 'we'll get together for coffee tomorrow' i was thinking 'huh? coffee wtf do u have a bf or something... i know she wasn't married she told me that' and thats when she started to act bit shifty.. when i kissed her bye again.. she gave me an odd look like that look of 'im not interested anymore you're creeping me out'
so this morning i send her a message by sms, it doens't deliver (her story appears to be true assuming this even is her number..) so i paste it as a whatsapp msg (dumb move, even on an iphone a text which is more than 1 msg long looks way way too long for a whatsapp msg) and when i read it back i realise that if she was creeped out at the end by my overexcitedness and panickyness.. this text will look needy and desperate.. sent it at 9am, i said i finished work early and i'd meet her at hotel at 12 and take her out maybe dancing tonight too.. (basically a too long afc msg) i see she's online after couple couple hours and it delivers.. then i wrote 'actually meet me at the starbucks instead' as i realised she doesnt have any reception except wifi in starbucks. no response then i leave a further msg saying 'and make it a bit later, my dad needs to get the car fixed so i'll need to get the train. what time is good for you?' no response.. she's been online few times since.. (also the whatsapp messenger thing is more like an instant messenger so sending back to back msgs is the norm, it just looks like u pressed return too soon)
i guess i got used for a 20 dollar drink.. thoughts on this? it's over i guess?
haha.. it's a pity i think me and you could have had fun.'