"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wtf...Trying to make me jealous?

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I just got a strange phone call.

My GF is at a camp for a week and called me for like 5 mins and told me she is going swimming with 4 other guys by herself and she going to call back at 10.

I did not act like it bothered me or said anything about it.

Why the **** did she call just to tell me that? How should I act about it when she calls back?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr_knowit_all

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DDevil said:
I just got a strange phone call.

My GF is at a camp for a week and called me for like 5 mins and told me she is going swimming with 4 other guys by herself and she going to call back at 10.

I did not act like it bothered me or said anything about it.

Why the **** did she call just to tell me that? How should I act about it when she calls back?


EDIT: BTW I do have a temper when other guys try stuff on her behind my back but I hide it very well.If something does happen I will find the guy.
You'll find the guy? Why? If your girlfriend is a ***** that goes swimming with five other guys, why hold them accountable?
 

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Your right Mr know it all , but every time she calls she tells my how so many guys are hitting on her even thought they know about me and blah blah. Annoys the hell out of me. Why do girls do that?
 

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Well, I just acted like it didn't bother and after a while figured out that she just wanted me to say I missed her without being ****y and funny about it. She thinks i'm insensitive.

I swear girls will drive you insane......


BTW: thanks for the advice:mad:
 

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you know what i realized with this? i stopped focusing on these jokers that give attention to girls and started wondering about what makes me special. why am i the odd one out here who gets this girl. instead of wondering about these idiots that try to play it up and get with her. if she's STUPID enough to try anything with these guys well i'd hope u'd be smart enough to walk away. i know i will and man will any girl who gets me be a retard for doing this.

girls making you jealous to see why you'd worry or what you'd do about it. in essence we have no real control over what people do, you gotta hope that they wont pull any stupid sh** and f*** up what you two had. all she wants to know is whether or not you realize that and where you'd stand. the other big thing is whether or not you trust her. if she cheated on you, would you be able to handle it anyways? and the sh***y thing is that its almost impossible to call them on it without them getting defensive or to make it out like you don't care enough about her if she did. getting a lot of attention from girls has been helping me to maintain my composure as i know that if she does something dumb, i have a girl nearby who'd be more than happy to end up with me.

i'd really say just don't even pay attention to it like you would be really surprised if she pulled any sh*t on you. afterall a true keeper is one you would be surprised would pull sh*t on you anyways. no sense in being paranoid that because she gets attention, that she's gonna do them all. you'd think the girl you're with would have more sense than that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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