"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wtf...Trying to make me jealous?

DDevil

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I just got a strange phone call.

My GF is at a camp for a week and called me for like 5 mins and told me she is going swimming with 4 other guys by herself and she going to call back at 10.

I did not act like it bothered me or said anything about it.

Why the **** did she call just to tell me that? How should I act about it when she calls back?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DDevil said:
I just got a strange phone call.

My GF is at a camp for a week and called me for like 5 mins and told me she is going swimming with 4 other guys by herself and she going to call back at 10.

I did not act like it bothered me or said anything about it.

Why the **** did she call just to tell me that? How should I act about it when she calls back?


EDIT: BTW I do have a temper when other guys try stuff on her behind my back but I hide it very well.If something does happen I will find the guy.
You'll find the guy? Why? If your girlfriend is a ***** that goes swimming with five other guys, why hold them accountable?
 

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Your right Mr know it all , but every time she calls she tells my how so many guys are hitting on her even thought they know about me and blah blah. Annoys the hell out of me. Why do girls do that?
 

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Well, I just acted like it didn't bother and after a while figured out that she just wanted me to say I missed her without being ****y and funny about it. She thinks i'm insensitive.

I swear girls will drive you insane......


BTW: thanks for the advice:mad:
 

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you know what i realized with this? i stopped focusing on these jokers that give attention to girls and started wondering about what makes me special. why am i the odd one out here who gets this girl. instead of wondering about these idiots that try to play it up and get with her. if she's STUPID enough to try anything with these guys well i'd hope u'd be smart enough to walk away. i know i will and man will any girl who gets me be a retard for doing this.

girls making you jealous to see why you'd worry or what you'd do about it. in essence we have no real control over what people do, you gotta hope that they wont pull any stupid sh** and f*** up what you two had. all she wants to know is whether or not you realize that and where you'd stand. the other big thing is whether or not you trust her. if she cheated on you, would you be able to handle it anyways? and the sh***y thing is that its almost impossible to call them on it without them getting defensive or to make it out like you don't care enough about her if she did. getting a lot of attention from girls has been helping me to maintain my composure as i know that if she does something dumb, i have a girl nearby who'd be more than happy to end up with me.

i'd really say just don't even pay attention to it like you would be really surprised if she pulled any sh*t on you. afterall a true keeper is one you would be surprised would pull sh*t on you anyways. no sense in being paranoid that because she gets attention, that she's gonna do them all. you'd think the girl you're with would have more sense than that.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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