you know what i realized with this? i stopped focusing on these jokers that give attention to girls and started wondering about what makes me special. why am i the odd one out here who gets this girl. instead of wondering about these idiots that try to play it up and get with her. if she's STUPID enough to try anything with these guys well i'd hope u'd be smart enough to walk away. i know i will and man will any girl who gets me be a retard for doing this.
girls making you jealous to see why you'd worry or what you'd do about it. in essence we have no real control over what people do, you gotta hope that they wont pull any stupid sh** and f*** up what you two had. all she wants to know is whether or not you realize that and where you'd stand. the other big thing is whether or not you trust her. if she cheated on you, would you be able to handle it anyways? and the sh***y thing is that its almost impossible to call them on it without them getting defensive or to make it out like you don't care enough about her if she did. getting a lot of attention from girls has been helping me to maintain my composure as i know that if she does something dumb, i have a girl nearby who'd be more than happy to end up with me.
i'd really say just don't even pay attention to it like you would be really surprised if she pulled any sh*t on you. afterall a true keeper is one you would be surprised would pull sh*t on you anyways. no sense in being paranoid that because she gets attention, that she's gonna do them all. you'd think the girl you're with would have more sense than that.