"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WTF to do, need help

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OK was out with my girl Friday night both got a little drunk, I dropped her off at her place and went home.

Run into my girl's roomates boyfriend. He tells me my girl walked in on him and his girlfriend (my girls roomate) getting it on in the living room.

He proceeds to tell me that she start tring to kiss him and initiate a 3 way between them.

I asked my girl about it and she claimes she didn't and doesnt remember much of anything friday night

It this her bull.

I asked the dude what happened, and he just kind of clammed up and said nothing

Think he did anything> I mean if he did and didn't want to tell me he would have never said anything to start with right?

Need some advice on how to proceed
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First of all, since you will probably never get the straight facts, don't sweat it either way - dude might just be messing with you.

Get your girlfriend drunk and try to hook up a three way. If you have a three - way, great.
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But, it will probably mean she had a three way with her roommate too.
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Hope you're using a rubber.
 
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Do nothing. I think they are just messing with you.
 
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The guy messing with you. If her isn't, then you're in even better shape...you're in for some good times in the near future!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yea, that guy wouldn't have told you that for no reason. Something is seriously wrong, homie. I'd call that relationship over right about now. I don't know any guy who would lie about something like that. Moreover, your girl's side of the story "I don't remember much" is extremely weak and smells deceitful. Tell your girl what the guy told you and guage her response. If nothing happened she'd confront the guy with you there and she'd ask him why he lied about something so seriously damaging to your relationship. Also, ask the guy's chick about it.

Man, the more I think about this, the more I'm sure she did try to get in on the action. You're silly if you continue to spend money on her. Kick her to the curb.
 
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Well, my biggest fears came true. I found out last night

The dude is banging both his girl and mine in 3 ways. Everyone admitted to it ast night. One time dude's friend even jumped in and they had a 4 way

I asked my girl about it, and she said it was something she always wanted to try and do, but that she didn't want to do it with me because she loved me and couldndt even think of me with another girl

What kind of messed up logic is that.? Girl loves me so much that she is suckin some other dudes cok after it has been in another girls **** and azz. Girls are messed up.

I mean figure this, she love me, but she is letting him and his friend and not me do anal and threeways with her.

F that and f women.......this was the last straw....no more Mr. Nice guy from here on out it is straight out pimp. Bangin as many as I can, and just gonna rack up a body count and leave them all for dead.

Find the, bed them, then I am out. After I bang the girl, I will never talk to them again, as I will be tooo busy bangin the next
 
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I kno, I know

Now it is up to me to go bang them all like the slvts they are
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My heart goes out to you buddy. That's about as harsh as it comes. I know you have the strength and knowledge to walk away and never talk to her again - EVER.
Not only did she cheat, but she betrayed your trust. That's gonna sting. But only if you dwell on it.

You've got it right. Go on a rampage! :box: Put as many notches in your belt as you possibly can in the next couple months. Loot, pillage, and plunder the woman race like a freakin' sex pirate. And say "ArrRGGGH" when your doing it. It will help keep your mind off of what just happened.

And when you find yourself dwelling on her and that scene - imagine the thousands of DJ's here standing behind you getting pissed off for trying to be an AFC.
:trouble:
Don't look back.
 
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