"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WTF to do, need help

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OK was out with my girl Friday night both got a little drunk, I dropped her off at her place and went home.

Run into my girl's roomates boyfriend. He tells me my girl walked in on him and his girlfriend (my girls roomate) getting it on in the living room.

He proceeds to tell me that she start tring to kiss him and initiate a 3 way between them.

I asked my girl about it and she claimes she didn't and doesnt remember much of anything friday night

It this her bull.

I asked the dude what happened, and he just kind of clammed up and said nothing

Think he did anything> I mean if he did and didn't want to tell me he would have never said anything to start with right?

Need some advice on how to proceed
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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First of all, since you will probably never get the straight facts, don't sweat it either way - dude might just be messing with you.

Get your girlfriend drunk and try to hook up a three way. If you have a three - way, great.
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But, it will probably mean she had a three way with her roommate too.
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Hope you're using a rubber.
 
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Do nothing. I think they are just messing with you.
 
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The guy messing with you. If her isn't, then you're in even better shape...you're in for some good times in the near future!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yea, that guy wouldn't have told you that for no reason. Something is seriously wrong, homie. I'd call that relationship over right about now. I don't know any guy who would lie about something like that. Moreover, your girl's side of the story "I don't remember much" is extremely weak and smells deceitful. Tell your girl what the guy told you and guage her response. If nothing happened she'd confront the guy with you there and she'd ask him why he lied about something so seriously damaging to your relationship. Also, ask the guy's chick about it.

Man, the more I think about this, the more I'm sure she did try to get in on the action. You're silly if you continue to spend money on her. Kick her to the curb.
 
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Well, my biggest fears came true. I found out last night

The dude is banging both his girl and mine in 3 ways. Everyone admitted to it ast night. One time dude's friend even jumped in and they had a 4 way

I asked my girl about it, and she said it was something she always wanted to try and do, but that she didn't want to do it with me because she loved me and couldndt even think of me with another girl

What kind of messed up logic is that.? Girl loves me so much that she is suckin some other dudes cok after it has been in another girls **** and azz. Girls are messed up.

I mean figure this, she love me, but she is letting him and his friend and not me do anal and threeways with her.

F that and f women.......this was the last straw....no more Mr. Nice guy from here on out it is straight out pimp. Bangin as many as I can, and just gonna rack up a body count and leave them all for dead.

Find the, bed them, then I am out. After I bang the girl, I will never talk to them again, as I will be tooo busy bangin the next
 
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I kno, I know

Now it is up to me to go bang them all like the slvts they are
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My heart goes out to you buddy. That's about as harsh as it comes. I know you have the strength and knowledge to walk away and never talk to her again - EVER.
Not only did she cheat, but she betrayed your trust. That's gonna sting. But only if you dwell on it.

You've got it right. Go on a rampage! :box: Put as many notches in your belt as you possibly can in the next couple months. Loot, pillage, and plunder the woman race like a freakin' sex pirate. And say "ArrRGGGH" when your doing it. It will help keep your mind off of what just happened.

And when you find yourself dwelling on her and that scene - imagine the thousands of DJ's here standing behind you getting pissed off for trying to be an AFC.
:trouble:
Don't look back.
 
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