"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WTF, The Ex keeps calling.

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About 2 years ago, I dated this girl for like a month. Then we broke up badly, and I didn't talk to her for like 8 or 9 months. and then over the summer I decided to stop being so bitter about the whole thing, and we became friends again, Not as good friends as we were before we went out, but back on speaking terms.

So then I graduated, and once in a blue moon she'd IM me and we'd talk for a bit. Then she finally got a new boyfriend,who she is still with, and apparently REALLY likes alot.

A few months ago we were talking and she apologised for being such a B**ch when we broke up, and it actually made me forgive her ina sense, not that I really cared anymore.

Which brings us to the present. She drunk dials me every so often, but I've only answered once or twice. And she's constsntly asking when I'm going to move back down to where we went to school. And today she called me on her way home just to talk, and we ended up talking for the longest time we ever did on the phone which I found weird.

So I guess my question is why would she call me and IM me etc. when she has a boyfriend who it seems she should be calling instead? I mean other than my name appearing in her phone book before her boyfriend's I think she's confused as to what/who she wants. Basically I just wants some other DJ takes on the situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She wants to bang you on occassion, or wants to extract emotional support. Who knows which, but those times she calls you are the times she allows her instinct to guide her actions. Deep inside she desires that connection with you again on whatever level she's missing now, although she may be too crazy to deal with it reasonably.

Most of the time when chicks do these types of things, they are seeking something that they're missing. Maybe her man gives it to her good enough, but she doesn't get that emotional support. Maybe vice versa. Whatever it is, some women fantasize about the grass on the other side, and how it has all the green relationship elements they desire. Truth is no one has ALL the elements a person desires. Mostly you seek out a mate with quite a few of your favorite elements.

Bottom line is you should think about what you want, and if it's her then proactively pursue it or tell her to stop calling you. My advice is tell her to beat it, because if she's calling you when she has a boyfriend, she'll call someone else if you're her boyfriend. She's an untrustworthy skank. Don't get into the mindset that you're special. She has a pattern is all, and you're getting caught up in it.
 
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