“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WTF, The Ex keeps calling.

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About 2 years ago, I dated this girl for like a month. Then we broke up badly, and I didn't talk to her for like 8 or 9 months. and then over the summer I decided to stop being so bitter about the whole thing, and we became friends again, Not as good friends as we were before we went out, but back on speaking terms.

So then I graduated, and once in a blue moon she'd IM me and we'd talk for a bit. Then she finally got a new boyfriend,who she is still with, and apparently REALLY likes alot.

A few months ago we were talking and she apologised for being such a B**ch when we broke up, and it actually made me forgive her ina sense, not that I really cared anymore.

Which brings us to the present. She drunk dials me every so often, but I've only answered once or twice. And she's constsntly asking when I'm going to move back down to where we went to school. And today she called me on her way home just to talk, and we ended up talking for the longest time we ever did on the phone which I found weird.

So I guess my question is why would she call me and IM me etc. when she has a boyfriend who it seems she should be calling instead? I mean other than my name appearing in her phone book before her boyfriend's I think she's confused as to what/who she wants. Basically I just wants some other DJ takes on the situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She wants to bang you on occassion, or wants to extract emotional support. Who knows which, but those times she calls you are the times she allows her instinct to guide her actions. Deep inside she desires that connection with you again on whatever level she's missing now, although she may be too crazy to deal with it reasonably.

Most of the time when chicks do these types of things, they are seeking something that they're missing. Maybe her man gives it to her good enough, but she doesn't get that emotional support. Maybe vice versa. Whatever it is, some women fantasize about the grass on the other side, and how it has all the green relationship elements they desire. Truth is no one has ALL the elements a person desires. Mostly you seek out a mate with quite a few of your favorite elements.

Bottom line is you should think about what you want, and if it's her then proactively pursue it or tell her to stop calling you. My advice is tell her to beat it, because if she's calling you when she has a boyfriend, she'll call someone else if you're her boyfriend. She's an untrustworthy skank. Don't get into the mindset that you're special. She has a pattern is all, and you're getting caught up in it.
 
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