"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wtf Sosuave?

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So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kickureface

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TheEdgeOf said:
So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
yes, quality has definitely gone down. i browse the hf section now :)
 

Young Juan

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I'm pretty sure 50 Cent made an empire off of that tactic.
 

DonJuan11

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TheEdgeOf said:
So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
El Stud is being illogical and is starting thread after thread with ill advised takes and stupid comments. People get annoyed at this and want to respond and bash. He asks for advice, never takes it, and bashes people who give it to him. You have understand that frustrates alot of people and they take it out on the board here. I myself don't know why he's not banned. He just keeps posting his daily approach and it has nothing to do with what we are trying to accomplish here.

We can understand you're frustration. You really need help and come here asking for advice. However, I'm sure at one time or another your problem (or of the sorts) has been answered by one of the experts or is in the bible somewhere. If not, ask again and I'm sure there will be enough people to help you. Just make sure its not the same variation of other questions that have been asked repeatedly.
 

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Lol, In the whole year I've been at this forum, I don't recall anyone asking the same question, ever.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheEdgeOf

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I was talking about my other thread :)
 

War Against Betaism

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The stupid post limit deserves some blame as well. I've already counted 3 times where I couldn't give advice to people because I've maxed out on all my posts and it's pretty annoying because on normal posts I'm rather careless and overlook any obvious grammar and spelling mistakes, but when giving advice I like to proof read it several times.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm getting sick of this forum... I basicly, only reply to people with real questions. Other useless threads and questions that have been asked 1 million times I skip. Also, the 10 post limit makes me choose my post wisely...
 

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TheEdgeOf said:
So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
LOL.. there is nothing special about the humans on this site so stop expecting some other type of hehaviour from them..
 

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the only place i look for advice is in the dj bible that i printed out that is like 400+ pages long. its full of advice/insight from previous DJ's. no need to post here unless u need a quick answer to a question. otherwise take an hour before you need to sleep and look up what u need to know/what you're interested in learning.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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