"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wtf Sosuave?

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So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kickureface

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TheEdgeOf said:
So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
yes, quality has definitely gone down. i browse the hf section now :)
 

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I'm pretty sure 50 Cent made an empire off of that tactic.
 

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TheEdgeOf said:
So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
El Stud is being illogical and is starting thread after thread with ill advised takes and stupid comments. People get annoyed at this and want to respond and bash. He asks for advice, never takes it, and bashes people who give it to him. You have understand that frustrates alot of people and they take it out on the board here. I myself don't know why he's not banned. He just keeps posting his daily approach and it has nothing to do with what we are trying to accomplish here.

We can understand you're frustration. You really need help and come here asking for advice. However, I'm sure at one time or another your problem (or of the sorts) has been answered by one of the experts or is in the bible somewhere. If not, ask again and I'm sure there will be enough people to help you. Just make sure its not the same variation of other questions that have been asked repeatedly.
 

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Lol, In the whole year I've been at this forum, I don't recall anyone asking the same question, ever.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was talking about my other thread :)
 

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The stupid post limit deserves some blame as well. I've already counted 3 times where I couldn't give advice to people because I've maxed out on all my posts and it's pretty annoying because on normal posts I'm rather careless and overlook any obvious grammar and spelling mistakes, but when giving advice I like to proof read it several times.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm getting sick of this forum... I basicly, only reply to people with real questions. Other useless threads and questions that have been asked 1 million times I skip. Also, the 10 post limit makes me choose my post wisely...
 

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TheEdgeOf said:
So 369 people will look at a thread bashing ElStud- one of it's members, but not even 20 people can be bothered to read a post about someone genuinely needs help.

What the f*ck, Sosuave? Since when has this been a site about bashing posers? Sosuave is supposed to be about DJs sharing advice, tips and solutions to problems concerning women. Who gives a sh*t what ElStud does?

I'm seriously starting to lose my faith in you guys.
LOL.. there is nothing special about the humans on this site so stop expecting some other type of hehaviour from them..
 

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the only place i look for advice is in the dj bible that i printed out that is like 400+ pages long. its full of advice/insight from previous DJ's. no need to post here unless u need a quick answer to a question. otherwise take an hour before you need to sleep and look up what u need to know/what you're interested in learning.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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