"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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wtf... so confused.

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Hey guys, I haven't posted in a while, but I'm having a hard time figuring this one girl out.
So we met back in HS, and we hung out a few times. I invited her over to my place and watched a movie on my couch. We started to sorta mess around with clothes on, but no kissing. I tried to kiss her, and she said she had a bf and wasn't really into me. Mind you, this was back when I was a noob DJ.

So then I didn't see her for a while (now i'm in college), and we decided to hang out again. We saw each other like 2- 3 times and had fun, but nothing happened. (at this point, i only saw her as a friend, cause she really is a cool girl.)

We didn't see each other for another 2 months or so, and we hung out yesterday. I decided to tell her that I liked her. (i know people will give me **** for this, but everything is situational, and I felt it was the right thing to do). So before she comes over, she says that she saw me as just a friend. So we hung out on a couch. Like tickling, wrestling, her laying on me and stroking her back and ****, just messing around. And then about 30 sec after she leaves, she comes back and is all nervous and **** and says she wants to know what it's like to kiss me. So I do kiss her, and she's like... "well alright, i'll see you later". and she runs off really quick.

So i know i'm not a bad kisser, but not a phenomenal one either.
I'm not very worried or attached to this girl, I just can't read her like I usually can and was wondering wtf is going on.
Thanks.
 

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why did you kiss her?

you shoulda said friends dont do that, i'll talk to you later.

Then next time shes over kiss her vag
 
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so when she said she saw you as a friend, did she say it in the past tense? as in "i USED to see you as a friend"? or did she say "i have always seen you as a friend."

it sounds like maybe she sees you differently now.. and if she wanted to kiss you that's a good sign.

get your head on straight and play this right (no more telling her you like her) and you should be good
 
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