"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wtf... so confused.

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Crazy Asian

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Hey guys, I haven't posted in a while, but I'm having a hard time figuring this one girl out.
So we met back in HS, and we hung out a few times. I invited her over to my place and watched a movie on my couch. We started to sorta mess around with clothes on, but no kissing. I tried to kiss her, and she said she had a bf and wasn't really into me. Mind you, this was back when I was a noob DJ.

So then I didn't see her for a while (now i'm in college), and we decided to hang out again. We saw each other like 2- 3 times and had fun, but nothing happened. (at this point, i only saw her as a friend, cause she really is a cool girl.)

We didn't see each other for another 2 months or so, and we hung out yesterday. I decided to tell her that I liked her. (i know people will give me **** for this, but everything is situational, and I felt it was the right thing to do). So before she comes over, she says that she saw me as just a friend. So we hung out on a couch. Like tickling, wrestling, her laying on me and stroking her back and ****, just messing around. And then about 30 sec after she leaves, she comes back and is all nervous and **** and says she wants to know what it's like to kiss me. So I do kiss her, and she's like... "well alright, i'll see you later". and she runs off really quick.

So i know i'm not a bad kisser, but not a phenomenal one either.
I'm not very worried or attached to this girl, I just can't read her like I usually can and was wondering wtf is going on.
Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chromeo

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why did you kiss her?

you shoulda said friends dont do that, i'll talk to you later.

Then next time shes over kiss her vag
 
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so when she said she saw you as a friend, did she say it in the past tense? as in "i USED to see you as a friend"? or did she say "i have always seen you as a friend."

it sounds like maybe she sees you differently now.. and if she wanted to kiss you that's a good sign.

get your head on straight and play this right (no more telling her you like her) and you should be good
 
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