wtf should i do

[Kendog]

The gym thing isn't working, we just can't get there at the right times to see each other. She says noon so I show up at 1220 and she says she saw me across the gym but was just leaving. This morning I said I would go to the gym at 11am when she said she would be there, but I warned I may oversleep, which I did.

Should another time be arranged on AIM for the gym? I don't know how long it will be until she thinks it's just creepy and weird trying to meet a kid she doesn't know in a gym.

OR should I attempt to become a bit more involved with her on AIM and then ask her out on a kind of blind date? This way we'll meet and it WILL be a date, instead of "meeting in the gym."

OR should I just keep chatting with her on AIM and see if she continues to stay interested for a few weeks and then arrange a date?

I can just do nothing too and continue to chat on AIM, I could use some girl but can live without.. have for long enough already.

 

[squirrels]

Why are you jerking her around to begin with?

Think of it this way...if a girl told you she'd meet you at the gym at 12 and didn't make it till 12:20, then you arranged to meet again and SHE overslept, would you keep messing with her?

I hope not.

If you make a date to be somewhere...BE THERE.

 

[Kendog]

well it wasnt official it was just "oh im going to the gym at 12" "oh ok ill prob come ther around 12 too"

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Call her and apologize for your absence and treat her to a lunch.