"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WTF, people always think "look like a good person"

theworldislost

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I'm far from "good". I am 100% against marriage and can't stand steady relationships, I'm not good at all, very self-centered and proud of it.

Women say my face looks "good", far from it, and it pisses me off when they think I'm good. I know a lot of bad types, and I'm much more selfish than them, and I hear women saying "I can just tell, you're good".

Someone who looks "good"...aren't they the submissive, low testosterone guys who wait for a women to realize that "bad boys" aren't gonna pay their bills, and give the woman money for the rest of her life?

What the F is the point of attitude and game when the face communicates things you don't even believe?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It means you are living proof that "you can't judge a book by it's cover."
 

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I always hear i have an innocent face. It's never been a problem. Good is well... good. Don't get good mixed up with gulliable.
 

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if anything it is a sign that people trust you and like you. You will not creep girls out as much as, say, krusty the klown. cant trust that bastard.
 

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Well, the doctor said I probably can't have children. Probably a good thing. No wonder I look like such a good person, and have had so many comments that I have a face like I "don't got game". Attitudes and beliefs my ass. There's absolutely no point to me playing the game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well its better than them saying you look like a nice guy and saying it in a flippant manner.

Anyway if you're having great success with women regardless of them saying this about you I don't see it as being much of a problem.

Hell it might even be a strength and thats what you have to play to in life.

Your strengths.
 

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no man.
this site messes people's heads up too much.
being good is good.
you don't want to be a jerk.
a jerk is no better than an AFC.
 
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