"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WTF, people always think "look like a good person"

theworldislost

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I'm far from "good". I am 100% against marriage and can't stand steady relationships, I'm not good at all, very self-centered and proud of it.

Women say my face looks "good", far from it, and it pisses me off when they think I'm good. I know a lot of bad types, and I'm much more selfish than them, and I hear women saying "I can just tell, you're good".

Someone who looks "good"...aren't they the submissive, low testosterone guys who wait for a women to realize that "bad boys" aren't gonna pay their bills, and give the woman money for the rest of her life?

What the F is the point of attitude and game when the face communicates things you don't even believe?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It means you are living proof that "you can't judge a book by it's cover."
 

martinM.

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I always hear i have an innocent face. It's never been a problem. Good is well... good. Don't get good mixed up with gulliable.
 

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if anything it is a sign that people trust you and like you. You will not creep girls out as much as, say, krusty the klown. cant trust that bastard.
 

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Well, the doctor said I probably can't have children. Probably a good thing. No wonder I look like such a good person, and have had so many comments that I have a face like I "don't got game". Attitudes and beliefs my ass. There's absolutely no point to me playing the game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well its better than them saying you look like a nice guy and saying it in a flippant manner.

Anyway if you're having great success with women regardless of them saying this about you I don't see it as being much of a problem.

Hell it might even be a strength and thats what you have to play to in life.

Your strengths.
 

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no man.
this site messes people's heads up too much.
being good is good.
you don't want to be a jerk.
a jerk is no better than an AFC.
 
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