"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, this is some waky S***. My parents are getting onto me
me for sleeping around and just having sex with alot of woman, I'm not trying to brag this is serious, they are telling me to stop it and that I should treat woman this respect, I was like... Pffft!
Advice? What should I tell them, what should I do.... DJ, I need help on this one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're parents are just worried about you. Even though you're 19, you're still their little boy in their mind. I wouldn't worry about this too much. As long as you're practicing safe sex and not doing some biker dudes g/f or something dangerious like that then everythig is all right. They'll get over it in time.
 
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Everything should be done in moderation. Your parents might be worried about you that at your young age you might get tangle up with the wrong girl, pick up STD or get her pregnant. Just be careful out there, and take responsibility for your actions.
 
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Yeah, they went on about those lines of catching something or getting the girl a little up the duff. And they tell me if I carry on the way I am it will come back and hit me in the future and i've to stop using girls. It's really quite an annoying issue, people ain't like they way they use to be in there time one night stands are a common thing, they just have to deal with it.... There calling me sleezy and ****. It's annoying.
 
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people ain't like they way they use to be in there time one night stands are a common thing,
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You know which type of girls do ONS? Hors and psycho girls with problems. Hors sleep with guys all the time so they eventually will pick up a disease and give you something. Psycho girls might sleep with you in order to get pregnant and then milk you for your money.

You are still under the care of your parents and if something bad happen they will have to carry the load.

Why don't you slow things down? date 2-3 women and fvck the same ones constantly instead of a new stranger every week. This way you at least know who you are dealing with.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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