"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WTF moments during learning

Bossman90

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Over the the last 2 weeks, ive had these 2 what the **** moments. One was tonight and the other was in a strip club last week.

tonight: I met a girl and she was being *****y after I complimented her. So i decided to stay in and see if I could pull it around by plowing. Got her to settle down and we started talking. turns out shes rich, like me. She started asking me why I don't have a job(inheritance) and started telling me that hse works because it makes her feel good and stormed off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rhythmic

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Well, you can never really know how a woman is going to respond to something. But possibly a bigger issue: You don't have a job because you don't need money, that's fine, but what do you do with your life? You should probably have a better answer lined up, because maybe it sounds to her like you just do nothing all the time.
 

popsickle

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I second what Rhythmic said. You have money and that's cool, definitely helps with your status, but I suppose your answer displays a lack of a driving force in your life. Even if you don't work for money, you could found some kind of charity/start a new venture for fun/do anything that motivates you.
 
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