She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Move on from watt? I don't even talk to her. Nor do I socialize in any way with her.Professor Booty said:
Wouldn't do a damn thing to her. These b!tches at the front counter and their co-workers are ALL totally fvcked in the head. I've dealt with them...realllll snappy most of them. I've been accused of sh!t I didn't do, and actually got her boss fired, but the b!tchier one stayed employed until a few months later when she got let go too. They fvcked with the wrong dude back in 2009, that hot Summer, like 105 degrees that day. Now, the place is way more friendly and no more attitudes. I knew that it was just an out of control situation where these b!tches thought that they could get away with anything, that they could do no wrong or had unlimited freedom, to trample over my rights. They'd basically treated me in the most non-human manner, just Ugly treatment, and they paid the price in the end. I'm sure they'd been fvcked by several guys (or girls) at the gym which is why they had ascended to such high and mighty perceptions of themselves. No matter how lofty a b!tch thinks of herself, the b!tch can fall, like a stock, very quickly to the bottom, from A to Z, if she fvcks with the wrong dude. Funny.SharinganUser said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Minus the flirting I think she expected for me to at least make some type of eye contact or even just saying bye witch I didn't. It's just fascinating to see such behavior of body language. LOLbcolon said:
Its not a problem or big deal..youngmack said:
Maybe it was that all of a sudden't I just stopped giving her that body language of interest witch she felt, and all of a sudden't I just stopped giving her that type of attention, and I just went all out ****en cold LOLThe LadyKiller said:
Watts funny is that maybe she did picked/understood/decypher my body language of me looking at my phone while leaving for the sole reason to not even look at her or talk to her, and she reacted that way. LOL regardless, thats no excuse for such behavior. :crackup:MisterD said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I can really vouch for this at the LA Fitnesses I've been to here in Georgia.Mike32ct said:
True true.nismo-4 said:I can really vouch for this at the LA Fitnesses I've been to here in Georgia.
AFAIC, she's a bytch.
Women who work in sales are PAID TO FLIRT, EVEN IF THEY'RE UNINTERESTED!
F**k that fool. Judge's ruling.
Case closed.
Jair213 said:
thats the first thing that came to my mind, that she is insecure, cuz wen she told me that she didnt even look at me her face was turned looking some other way .. and i agree with you on the part that she did neg hit my ass and possibly she doesnt like me and she just gets a negative weird bad stupid vibe from me etc...Naughty Ninja said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.