I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Move on from watt? I don't even talk to her. Nor do I socialize in any way with her.Professor Booty said:
Wouldn't do a damn thing to her. These b!tches at the front counter and their co-workers are ALL totally fvcked in the head. I've dealt with them...realllll snappy most of them. I've been accused of sh!t I didn't do, and actually got her boss fired, but the b!tchier one stayed employed until a few months later when she got let go too. They fvcked with the wrong dude back in 2009, that hot Summer, like 105 degrees that day. Now, the place is way more friendly and no more attitudes. I knew that it was just an out of control situation where these b!tches thought that they could get away with anything, that they could do no wrong or had unlimited freedom, to trample over my rights. They'd basically treated me in the most non-human manner, just Ugly treatment, and they paid the price in the end. I'm sure they'd been fvcked by several guys (or girls) at the gym which is why they had ascended to such high and mighty perceptions of themselves. No matter how lofty a b!tch thinks of herself, the b!tch can fall, like a stock, very quickly to the bottom, from A to Z, if she fvcks with the wrong dude. Funny.SharinganUser said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Minus the flirting I think she expected for me to at least make some type of eye contact or even just saying bye witch I didn't. It's just fascinating to see such behavior of body language. LOLbcolon said:
Its not a problem or big deal..youngmack said:
Maybe it was that all of a sudden't I just stopped giving her that body language of interest witch she felt, and all of a sudden't I just stopped giving her that type of attention, and I just went all out ****en cold LOLThe LadyKiller said:
Watts funny is that maybe she did picked/understood/decypher my body language of me looking at my phone while leaving for the sole reason to not even look at her or talk to her, and she reacted that way. LOL regardless, thats no excuse for such behavior. :crackup:MisterD said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I can really vouch for this at the LA Fitnesses I've been to here in Georgia.Mike32ct said:
True true.nismo-4 said:I can really vouch for this at the LA Fitnesses I've been to here in Georgia.
AFAIC, she's a bytch.
Women who work in sales are PAID TO FLIRT, EVEN IF THEY'RE UNINTERESTED!
F**k that fool. Judge's ruling.
Case closed.
Jair213 said:
thats the first thing that came to my mind, that she is insecure, cuz wen she told me that she didnt even look at me her face was turned looking some other way .. and i agree with you on the part that she did neg hit my ass and possibly she doesnt like me and she just gets a negative weird bad stupid vibe from me etc...Naughty Ninja said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.