"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WTF is wrong with me?

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I am in a LTR 4 months now and I think I have a serious problem!! Though the girl is beautiful, acting great in the LTR and staff, I don't feel like facking her! I don't actually feel like facking at all!! I feel like I have to do something that I don't want to when we get together and 2 times have been real dramatic cause it didn't function! I find myself trying to avoid going to my place with her just because I know she will go for it!! I thought, maybe it's cause of her, she is the one who doesn't really make me wanna ... her, but I don't even wanna try for another one at this point of my life! Which it isn't me!! The masturbation has decreased a lot too...

Does this has something to do with libido? wtf? Anyone has ANY idea cause it's starting to freaking me out! I"ve been having this sh1t for 1 month now...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe your gay? Lol, kidding dude. My advice to go see your doctor. Low sex drive could be a symptom of something else.
 
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I'm not gay trust me! :p I still get thrilled by a beautiful woman! It's just the sex part that makes this a problem! I would have gone to a doctor but I think it's completely a psycology matter, so it has to be a psycatrist... :/ I'm 21 and I can't afford it, neither I want my parents to know about this!
 
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there are people who can't even go out on a date with a chick, and you're complaining here whether you want to fvck a hot girl or not... lol

looks like you're doing too well.
 
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moneyisking said:
there are people who can't even go out on a date with a chick, and you're complaining here whether you want to fvck a hot girl or not... lol

looks like you're doing too well.
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Looks like I am doing too well?!? I DON"T WANT TO FACK DUDE! Ok, I wouldn't want to be the one who couldn't find a p*ssy but at this point, this is a problem to me and it's getting more and more serious...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanit0 said:
I'm not gay trust me! :p I still get thrilled by a beautiful woman! It's just the sex part that makes this a problem! I would have gone to a doctor but I think it's completely a psycology matter, so it has to be a psycatrist... :/ I'm 21 and I can't afford it, neither I want my parents to know about this!
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You sound like you have fear of intimacy. When it doesn´t work it´s anxiety, it´s purely emotional.

Take a look at Schizoid Personality and see if it rings a bell.
 
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You have too much stress in your life or you don´t really like the chick. That simple.
 
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