Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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WTF is wrong with me?

DonJuanit0

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I am in a LTR 4 months now and I think I have a serious problem!! Though the girl is beautiful, acting great in the LTR and staff, I don't feel like facking her! I don't actually feel like facking at all!! I feel like I have to do something that I don't want to when we get together and 2 times have been real dramatic cause it didn't function! I find myself trying to avoid going to my place with her just because I know she will go for it!! I thought, maybe it's cause of her, she is the one who doesn't really make me wanna ... her, but I don't even wanna try for another one at this point of my life! Which it isn't me!! The masturbation has decreased a lot too...

Does this has something to do with libido? wtf? Anyone has ANY idea cause it's starting to freaking me out! I"ve been having this sh1t for 1 month now...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Scion

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Maybe your gay? Lol, kidding dude. My advice to go see your doctor. Low sex drive could be a symptom of something else.
 

DonJuanit0

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I'm not gay trust me! :p I still get thrilled by a beautiful woman! It's just the sex part that makes this a problem! I would have gone to a doctor but I think it's completely a psycology matter, so it has to be a psycatrist... :/ I'm 21 and I can't afford it, neither I want my parents to know about this!
 

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there are people who can't even go out on a date with a chick, and you're complaining here whether you want to fvck a hot girl or not... lol

looks like you're doing too well.
 

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moneyisking said:
there are people who can't even go out on a date with a chick, and you're complaining here whether you want to fvck a hot girl or not... lol

looks like you're doing too well.
Looks like I am doing too well?!? I DON"T WANT TO FACK DUDE! Ok, I wouldn't want to be the one who couldn't find a p*ssy but at this point, this is a problem to me and it's getting more and more serious...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanit0 said:
I'm not gay trust me! :p I still get thrilled by a beautiful woman! It's just the sex part that makes this a problem! I would have gone to a doctor but I think it's completely a psycology matter, so it has to be a psycatrist... :/ I'm 21 and I can't afford it, neither I want my parents to know about this!
You sound like you have fear of intimacy. When it doesn´t work it´s anxiety, it´s purely emotional.

Take a look at Schizoid Personality and see if it rings a bell.
 

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You have too much stress in your life or you don´t really like the chick. That simple.
 
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