"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wtf is wrong with me? I changed my ways

Jokerlsk

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Guys, i'm going to be quite honest here and tell you that i feel like sh**. I have gotten lead on, then friendzoned twice in the same month. The girl earlier this month wasn't quite as bad, but the girl that friendzoned me today.... well it's just not good.
The background story is that my sister (15) met a girl at the pool we go to who is 16 (that's my age btw) and lives in a city near mine, but comes down to my town on the weekends because they have two houses. This girl invites my sister over and then spends the night at our house the next day. I don't really like getting involved w/ my sister's friends, but she wanted to meet me so i just acted like my normal self. Her and I really hit it off and she flirted with me big time...... I noticed this and wanted to put distance between us. So i went upstairs into my room so i could go to bed. I left my friend (forgot to mention him, he isn't important until the end), my sister and that girl down stairs.
So while i'm in bed someone comes into my room and turns the lights on. I notice it's that girl and ask her what she's doing up here. She said something about wanting to talk to me.... Anyways, she ends up getting in bed w/ me and told me to put my arm around her. So i'm in bed w/ a girl that is probably about a hb 8 and we sit there for an hour. I tell her that i don't want things to go too far and that i'm going to go to bed and i would rather her not stay in my room. She understood and went into my sister's room.
So i wake up and tell her bye sense she's leaving. I never asked this girl out, but when i was taking a shower my ***** friend sent her a text message telling her i like her. And she replies saying "i only like him as a friend." WTF???????????????? I really want to know what i'm doing wrong. Why am i getting friendzoned? Because i didn't FU** her last night? I'm not going to do that. What did i do wrong? I was going to call her up later on and ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something when she comes back to town........ She pretty much told my friend that she likes a guy. This particular guy wanted her to give him a blow job....... She didn't but still.
Wtf? I'm so sick of girls. I'm sick of getting lead on and then getting friendzoned. I try, and i'm self confident. I'm not bad looking and i'm not fat so why do i always get friendzoned?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlexTheGreat

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Dude stop freaking out with this. Did she act interested in you? Did she get in bed with you? I bet she's at least a little interested.

The fact that she didn't tell anything more than "friend" to your friend is normal. She doesn't wanna be seen as a slut, especially to someone you know.

I don't know if you kicking her out or not helped or harmed you; it all depends on the way you did it. Really, it could go both ways. She's probably never been kicked out of some guy's bed before so she'll wonder what's up with you. However, if you just cuddled and didn't talk or do anything, then I think you screwed up.

Did she seem like she had a good time with you? If so, try again till she tells YOU that she's not interested. Don't let your friend do it.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Your 16 years old. Just have fun with it man. Quit worrying about getting laid and all that.
 
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