“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wtf is wrong with me? I changed my ways

Jokerlsk

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Guys, i'm going to be quite honest here and tell you that i feel like sh**. I have gotten lead on, then friendzoned twice in the same month. The girl earlier this month wasn't quite as bad, but the girl that friendzoned me today.... well it's just not good.
The background story is that my sister (15) met a girl at the pool we go to who is 16 (that's my age btw) and lives in a city near mine, but comes down to my town on the weekends because they have two houses. This girl invites my sister over and then spends the night at our house the next day. I don't really like getting involved w/ my sister's friends, but she wanted to meet me so i just acted like my normal self. Her and I really hit it off and she flirted with me big time...... I noticed this and wanted to put distance between us. So i went upstairs into my room so i could go to bed. I left my friend (forgot to mention him, he isn't important until the end), my sister and that girl down stairs.
So while i'm in bed someone comes into my room and turns the lights on. I notice it's that girl and ask her what she's doing up here. She said something about wanting to talk to me.... Anyways, she ends up getting in bed w/ me and told me to put my arm around her. So i'm in bed w/ a girl that is probably about a hb 8 and we sit there for an hour. I tell her that i don't want things to go too far and that i'm going to go to bed and i would rather her not stay in my room. She understood and went into my sister's room.
So i wake up and tell her bye sense she's leaving. I never asked this girl out, but when i was taking a shower my ***** friend sent her a text message telling her i like her. And she replies saying "i only like him as a friend." WTF???????????????? I really want to know what i'm doing wrong. Why am i getting friendzoned? Because i didn't FU** her last night? I'm not going to do that. What did i do wrong? I was going to call her up later on and ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something when she comes back to town........ She pretty much told my friend that she likes a guy. This particular guy wanted her to give him a blow job....... She didn't but still.
Wtf? I'm so sick of girls. I'm sick of getting lead on and then getting friendzoned. I try, and i'm self confident. I'm not bad looking and i'm not fat so why do i always get friendzoned?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlexTheGreat

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Dude stop freaking out with this. Did she act interested in you? Did she get in bed with you? I bet she's at least a little interested.

The fact that she didn't tell anything more than "friend" to your friend is normal. She doesn't wanna be seen as a slut, especially to someone you know.

I don't know if you kicking her out or not helped or harmed you; it all depends on the way you did it. Really, it could go both ways. She's probably never been kicked out of some guy's bed before so she'll wonder what's up with you. However, if you just cuddled and didn't talk or do anything, then I think you screwed up.

Did she seem like she had a good time with you? If so, try again till she tells YOU that she's not interested. Don't let your friend do it.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Your 16 years old. Just have fun with it man. Quit worrying about getting laid and all that.
 
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