"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wtf is wrong with me? I changed my ways

Jokerlsk

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Guys, i'm going to be quite honest here and tell you that i feel like sh**. I have gotten lead on, then friendzoned twice in the same month. The girl earlier this month wasn't quite as bad, but the girl that friendzoned me today.... well it's just not good.
The background story is that my sister (15) met a girl at the pool we go to who is 16 (that's my age btw) and lives in a city near mine, but comes down to my town on the weekends because they have two houses. This girl invites my sister over and then spends the night at our house the next day. I don't really like getting involved w/ my sister's friends, but she wanted to meet me so i just acted like my normal self. Her and I really hit it off and she flirted with me big time...... I noticed this and wanted to put distance between us. So i went upstairs into my room so i could go to bed. I left my friend (forgot to mention him, he isn't important until the end), my sister and that girl down stairs.
So while i'm in bed someone comes into my room and turns the lights on. I notice it's that girl and ask her what she's doing up here. She said something about wanting to talk to me.... Anyways, she ends up getting in bed w/ me and told me to put my arm around her. So i'm in bed w/ a girl that is probably about a hb 8 and we sit there for an hour. I tell her that i don't want things to go too far and that i'm going to go to bed and i would rather her not stay in my room. She understood and went into my sister's room.
So i wake up and tell her bye sense she's leaving. I never asked this girl out, but when i was taking a shower my ***** friend sent her a text message telling her i like her. And she replies saying "i only like him as a friend." WTF???????????????? I really want to know what i'm doing wrong. Why am i getting friendzoned? Because i didn't FU** her last night? I'm not going to do that. What did i do wrong? I was going to call her up later on and ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something when she comes back to town........ She pretty much told my friend that she likes a guy. This particular guy wanted her to give him a blow job....... She didn't but still.
Wtf? I'm so sick of girls. I'm sick of getting lead on and then getting friendzoned. I try, and i'm self confident. I'm not bad looking and i'm not fat so why do i always get friendzoned?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexTheGreat

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Dude stop freaking out with this. Did she act interested in you? Did she get in bed with you? I bet she's at least a little interested.

The fact that she didn't tell anything more than "friend" to your friend is normal. She doesn't wanna be seen as a slut, especially to someone you know.

I don't know if you kicking her out or not helped or harmed you; it all depends on the way you did it. Really, it could go both ways. She's probably never been kicked out of some guy's bed before so she'll wonder what's up with you. However, if you just cuddled and didn't talk or do anything, then I think you screwed up.

Did she seem like she had a good time with you? If so, try again till she tells YOU that she's not interested. Don't let your friend do it.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Your 16 years old. Just have fun with it man. Quit worrying about getting laid and all that.
 
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