"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wtf is WRONG with me haha I need a push from you guys.

Brighty

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Undispu7ed said:
How the **** are you a Master Don Juan if you're asking advice on how to say HI?

It's based on post count.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ezza

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uhm it looks like this girl has that stalker/obessision thing going on. not my type
but yes shes definitely into you and you just need to man the **** up and say hi or watever, make some lame ass excuse to sit next to her anythnig will do fine
 

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You are weak, you can't say a simple hello. You will lose her, become obsessed with her and then you will be a real creep.
 

Julian

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Its not that hard bro, just grow some balls.
 

mustfirstregister

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You need to have experience to say HI. it's not just a simple HI....

It could be HIIIIIIIIII or HHHHHI or hihiihihihi or hello
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sit by her. Then say hi. Or you can walk on your way out of class and just happen to end up next to her. Make a situational remark about the class, the teacher, etc. When this happens don't think
It through. You must learn to flow and be in the moment.
I miss college sometimes.
 

pvf94

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The Inside Man said:
Sit by her. Then say hi. Or you can walk on your way out of class and just happen to end up next to her. Make a situational remark about the class, the teacher, etc. When this happens don't think
It through. You must learn to flow and be in the moment.
I miss college sometimes.

My favorite so far :)
 
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