wtf is this girl doing

[Dhoulmagus]

asked this girl to lunch while I was drunk and things didn't fall through. I was like okay, but she kept bugging me that she still wanted to hangout with me. We are suppose to hangout out thursday night after work, but idk if she's going to pull some bs again or not.

 

[TheCWord]

Way too early to know which means you are overthinking ALREADY.

Chill. Let's see what happens on Thursday. If she pulls any weirdness or you have any questions we've got your back.

 

[GotED?]

You need to spin some more options/plates, buddy.

Too invested in the outcome of a single woman - the sooner you HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS OF THE OUTCOME to anything in life, the more you can live in peace in your HEAD.

This is serious ZEN advice to be taken seriously. Life's mostly out of our control, sooner you figure that out, the happier you will become. Including women - you have no control really over the outcome (she's a total stranger, there's a thousand things she could reject you having nothing to do with you directly - on PMS, rebound situation, 20 FWB already, she's got AIDS LOL...), you can only do your best and let it go.

Be well.

Exodus

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Desperado for pootang man lol

 

[adam225]

Desperado for pootang man lol

You need to loose this desperation or you will end up shooting yourself in the foot. Women have a "sixth sense" when it comes to reading men - one sniff of desperation and their off (or they'll just lead you on for a laugh). They pickup on it WELL - TRUST ME.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Women stick to not giving a fcuk like sh1t sticks to a blanket. Don't hang everything on the outcome cause somehow they can just smell it in the air.

 

[TheCWord]

You need to loose this desperation or you will end up shooting yourself in the foot..

!!!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926

Read up, OP.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Even when i dont care I dont get any. Didnt text her till two hours before the date and still got bs. I see my peers doing the opposite and they are netting results. Ive just come to the conclusion that its looks and luck. She has my snapchat now, so I might be in there.

 

[adam225]

!!!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926

Read up, OP.

Arrrr, probably my favourite thread there bro. It's always nice to re read though it.

 

[TheCWord]

Even when i dont care I dont get any. Didnt text her till two hours before the date and still got bs. I see my peers doing the opposite and they are netting results. Ive just come to the conclusion that its looks and luck. She has my snapchat now, so I might be in there.

There's a difference between acting like you don't care and actually not caring. It's hard to explain but you'll know the difference when you get there.

I like to try and offer advice that is more off-book than the standard "spin plates" but there's a reason that's the standard. It's what you need to do to not care. It's all about cultivating abundance.

But it's also about keeping busy doing the things you're passionate about. If having women in your life is so important the imbalance in your life is going to make for mucho frowny faces.

Recent example: I was seeing two girls for about 5-6 months. Then both plates broke simultaneously. In the past, I'd be going through a terrible withdrawal and the desperation to replace those women would repel any new prospects. This time around, when the plates broke, I kind of barely noticed after a few days. I had my own stuff going on and I was actually really excited to have more time to focus on stuff I had been neglecting... Sure enough, days later I was banging a new girl who has become a new plate. I wasn't even looking. Having my life in order (AND having my game on point) allows me to attract and bang women with relative ease.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

There's a difference between acting like you don't care and actually not caring. It's hard to explain but you'll know the difference when you get there.

I like to try and offer advice that is more off-book than the standard "spin plates" but there's a reason that's the standard. It's what you need to do to not care. It's all about cultivating abundance.

But it's also about keeping busy doing the things you're passionate about. If having women in your life is so important the imbalance in your life is going to make for mucho frowny faces.

Recent example: I was seeing two girls for about 5-6 months. Then both plates broke simultaneously. In the past, I'd be going through a terrible withdrawal and the desperation to replace those women would repel any new prospects. This time around, when the plates broke, I kind of barely noticed after a few days. I had my own stuff going on and I was actually really excited to have more time to focus on stuff I had been neglecting... Sure enough, days later I was banging a new girl who has become a new plate. I wasn't even looking. Having my life in order (AND having my game point) allows me to attract and bang women with relative ease.

I'm really busy this semester, so I don't have dat dere time for that. Reason I accepted her to hang out on Thursday was because she was bugging me about still wanting to hangout. I don't get off work till 10, so idk what I'm going to do with her lol.

 

[TheCWord]

I'm really busy this semester, so I don't have dat dere time for that. Reason I accepted her to hang out on Thursday was because she was bugging me about still wanting to hangout. I don't get off work till 10, so idk what I'm going to do with her lol.

When I was in college and I was only free after 10pm I'd usually tell a girl to just come over and watch a movie. Best part about being in college is that you're likely in a dorm or shared house so you often get to put the movie on in your bedroom

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

^^^ha, you know what's funny, I'm meeting this chick for the first time thiw week. When shewas telling me her available times to meet, they were all normal times, free nights, except on Wednesday she said she couldn't meet until after 10pm. Guess which night I chose....

Great advice on this thread though.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

When I was in college and I was only free after 10pm I'd usually tell a girl to just come over and watch a movie. Best part about being in college is that you're likely in a dorm or shared house so you often get to put the movie on in your bedroom

I just said hang, but I'm probably going to do this. She texted me confirming, so I guess its happening lol