"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WTF im 21 and already have white hair!?

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Anyway I knew i had one white hair on my front head for awhile. Then when my mom pointed out 3 or 4 other ones on the back of my head i go WTF and look in the mirror.

My day isnt really stressful. The only thing thing that could be the cause is probably lack of sleep or problems sleeping at night. And forcing myself to pay attention in class or stay attentive at work w/ lack of sleep. And a lot of times i stay up late altho im tired which can also be attributed to stress.

If this keeps up ill go bald by the time i reach 40. All i can do now is do the opposite of this which i've been doing since i was a teenager.

Quick question: is graying hair/ hair loss a result of short-term stress related causes or Long-term?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
It's genetic. The only other cause would be head injuries, which would cause gray hairs to start growing in the spots that got injured.
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It's not genetic. My parents didnt really begin getting grey hair until about they were 40. My bro who's 25 doesnt have a spec of grey hair.

As for injuries...there are a few bumps on the back of my head which are just most likely zits cause it's itchy on those areas.

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Stress. are you asian?
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Yes, it's true i am. Pointing to stereotypes are we? As for hard working i assure you i am not, i've always been a very big slacker. I love to stay up late at night and knowing i have to wake up early i still choose not to sleep. But those things will have to change :(
 
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Recessive gene maybe?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
It's not genetic. My parents didnt really begin getting grey hair until about they were 40. My bro who's 25 doesnt have a spec of grey hair.

As for injuries...there are a few bumps on the back of my head which are just most likely zits cause it's itchy on those areas.



Yes, it's true i am. Pointing to stereotypes are we? As for hard working i assure you i am not, i've always been a very big slacker. I love to stay up late at night and knowing i have to wake up early i still choose not to sleep. But those things will have to change :(
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No, I'm saying that cause I knew several asian guys in high school who got isolated white hairs when they got stressed.
 
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Originally posted by Austizzle
Recessive gene maybe?
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who knows maybe

No, I'm saying that cause I knew several asian guys in high school who got isolated white hairs when they got stressed.
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yea, i knew this guy from h.s. back a few yrs who, if i remember correct also had several white hairs on his head. Regardless if he was stressed i dont know.
 
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yeah a lot of people get white hair in early age if you believe its unusual, i personally know 5 people that are going white quicktimes, its not as bad as going bald early.
 
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im 19, asian, and have tons of random single strands of white hair every now and then. another asian friend of mine, who is a year younger also has random single strands of white hair every now and then.

:woo:
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
It's not genetic. My parents didnt really begin getting grey hair until about they were 40. My bro who's 25 doesnt have a spec of grey hair.

As for injuries...there are a few bumps on the back of my head which are just most likely zits cause it's itchy on those areas.



Yes, it's true i am. Pointing to stereotypes are we? As for hard working i assure you i am not, i've always been a very big slacker. I love to stay up late at night and knowing i have to wake up early i still choose not to sleep. But those things will have to change :(
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yo dude!!!!, those bumps in the back of your head are full of puss right? it hurts when you rest the back of your head on a pillow or something right?

DUDE ACT NOW, you have seborrheic dermatitis. I had/have ( well its gone now, just tiny specs left) the same problem and it reached my crown area where i had quite a few zits. You know what? it stopped some hair growing in those regions!, the hair folliclesgot plugged and hair didnt grow properly , or grew thin. Thank god my hair is thickening up now.! use a medicated shampoo and see your doctor ASAP
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by muttley
yo dude!!!!, those bumps in the back of your head are full of puss right? it hurts when you rest the back of your head on a pillow or something right?

DUDE ACT NOW, you have seborrheic dermatitis. I had/have ( well its gone now, just tiny specs left) the same problem and it reached my crown area where i had quite a few zits. You know what? it stopped some hair growing in those regions!, the hair folliclesgot plugged and hair didnt grow properly , or grew thin. Thank god my hair is thickening up now.! use a medicated shampoo and see your doctor ASAP
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WTF?
im pretty sure there's no puss in it, it's just some slight zit bumps.
As for diagnosis & treatment, should i see my regular clinic doctor or a special dermatologist?

Now that you meantion it, i think some of that **** ****ed up my facial hair area, where i see the follicles but it wont grow.
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
It's not genetic. My parents didnt really begin getting grey hair until about they were 40. My bro who's 25 doesnt have a spec of grey hair.

As for injuries...there are a few bumps on the back of my head which are just most likely zits cause it's itchy on those areas.



Yes, it's true i am. Pointing to stereotypes are we? As for hard working i assure you i am not, i've always been a very big slacker. I love to stay up late at night and knowing i have to wake up early i still choose not to sleep. But those things will have to change :(
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believe it or not, its actually common for asian men to get white hairs in their teens. not because of stress, but genetics.
 
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Either dye it out or MAKE IT A FEATURE.

Personally i'd make it a feature. One of my best buds has a grey patch and it actually looks rather cool. He doesnt give a **** and actually likes it, as do a lot of girls.
 
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yeah that dude that used to host talk soup had the grey patch. He was a cool guy (sorta).

If it bothers you just dye it. A buddy of mine is 23 and he has grey's. There are worse things to have, don't fret it.

Sarge on.
 
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Ive had random white hairs since i was 18... they only seem to have gotten worse one time in my life and that was when i was in the police academy for 8 months with constant stress, however since i got out they do not seem to be as noticable.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hehe I am 21 as well and this is happening to me as well.
I don't really care about it too much though
 
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