"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wtf, i thought this girl was wanting it.

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met this chick two weeks ago at a bar-i know, classy! went home with her. hooked up. i gave her oral. anyway, she flew home that day for xmas and was supposed to get back on the day before new years eve. i told her to call me when she got back. she didnt, so i shot her a quick text on new years eve to say hey and what she was doing that night. i havent heard anything back. damn, what happened? i thought she might was digging it. oh yeah, and to top it off, i gave her a ride to the fuking airport!!! should i even bother to attempt to try further?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hmmm, I think that a lot of people usually have plans on the day before New Years.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hmmm, I think that a lot of people usually have plans on the day before New Years.
should i still pursue after what has happened? or do you think she is over it?
 

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Allow her a little time to settle into the new year and then touch base. You're next interaction (or non-interaction) with her will give you a good gauge of her interest level.
 
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