"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wtf, i thought this girl was wanting it.

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met this chick two weeks ago at a bar-i know, classy! went home with her. hooked up. i gave her oral. anyway, she flew home that day for xmas and was supposed to get back on the day before new years eve. i told her to call me when she got back. she didnt, so i shot her a quick text on new years eve to say hey and what she was doing that night. i havent heard anything back. damn, what happened? i thought she might was digging it. oh yeah, and to top it off, i gave her a ride to the fuking airport!!! should i even bother to attempt to try further?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hmmm, I think that a lot of people usually have plans on the day before New Years.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hmmm, I think that a lot of people usually have plans on the day before New Years.
should i still pursue after what has happened? or do you think she is over it?
 

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Allow her a little time to settle into the new year and then touch base. You're next interaction (or non-interaction) with her will give you a good gauge of her interest level.
 
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