wtf happened?

[haram]

ok well i had written a thread about a HB girl i was supposed to go on a date with tonight...anways this girl txted me all day yesterday and today and i also passed one of her test....the test i assume was that i ask her if 9.30pm was fine to pick her up.....she said 8.30....i said how about 9....she said no cause its too late and if not then we can do this some other day.... im trying to be a DJ so i told her i have a lot of **** to do and that she can wait the extra half hour and if not then i guess we can reschedule.....she said ok but no later than 9.....

anyways this was at about 5 and i got her adress so i could pick up her up and everything.....so 9 comes along and im at her house and i call her to come out and she dosnt answer....i called her again and once again she dont answer.....she then calls me back 1 minute later and tells me that shes so sorry and that she thought i wasnt going to show up...anyways we talk and she sees im really angered, and keeps telling me that she thought i wasnt going to show off since i didnt call her half an hour before to confirm i was on my way like all the other guys do...i told her im not one of the other guys and she says she knows cause i look like a guy who has a bunch of girls kneeling on my feet and that i didnt seem interested in her because shes the one that has to start every conversation and that guys usually give her a lot of attention..........anyways after about a 15 minute drive i take her ass back home and she says she can understand if i never wanna talk to her again.......how the **** do i play this off cause really want to **** her

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ This is interesting, but its too late for thinking... I'll hit it up in morning

PS
I see deeper issues than 'games' with this one... interesting indeed



-Cod3r

 

[Bussey]

She has low self esteem. She's essentially playing the female version of an AFC.

I'd say call her tomorrow and say

'Hey, so yesterday didn't go off to well, haha, its cool I understand. But I want to see you this Saturday. (She says sure!) Alright, I'll be available earlier around 7ish, so I'll pick you up at 7:30. Cool see you then."

Edit: Notice the confidence in being able to text message lots. But then face to face she freezes up? Key sign she's interested, but not confident in herself.

May I also add that rather then **** and run... maybe try to build her up by keeping her around for longer then just the single ****...

 

[Bible_Belt]

Could you have knocked at the door? Or do you mean 'call her' like over a security intercom?

If possible, knock on the front door, and don't be afraid of who might answer.

 

[haram]

well i couldnt knock cause it was like an apartment complex.....it was just weird that she didnt even try getting ready cause she thought i wasnt gonna show up cause i didnt seem interested....also this past week shes the one initiating the calls and the texts....does this girl want a guy that is gonna kneel to her and praise her, or does she want someone like me who sorta ignores her

 

[MacAvoy]

This girl has flake written all over her. When a women makes a date, then doesn't get ready because she thinks that you might not show up, then she has major issues. I would be turning and running the other way. I don't say this too often but she really has to earn her way back into your life.

Secondly you need to take her off the pedastool, just because she is hot and you want to bang her brains out, doesn't give her the right to treat you like seconds. This is your life, are you willing to be treated like a lackey for the chance to sniff some tail, and I mean chance because if you allow this behaviour to continue, you are not in control, she will totally run over you.

This women does not live up to her committments! Get that through your head. She makes a date, then stands you up. Your second problem is the way you reacted. You can't show your emotions like that. You can't let her see that she affects you that much. A DJ would have been fine with the situation, turned around and called one of his backups. You don't start dressing your wounds in front of the enemy to show them your weakness.

 

[haram]

any other advice on what i should do?

 

[Desdinova]

any other advice on what i should do?

Find other women to date. This woman either has low self-esteem, or she's just a flakey b1tch. Either way, she's not worth your time and attention.

 

[aelux]

any other advice on what i should do?

bro what do you want to do. she has psycho written all over her but she might be a good lay. put on the helmet and watch out for psychochick womanease estrogen bombs.