"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wtf for the second time

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ok guys my here we go this just happened...

so my god sister calls me and ask to hang up and i agree
i pick her and her buddy up along with my friend in the car, my god sister and friend already know and **** each other moving along..
i tell the chick am practing abstinence and after that we have a ball, all night my god sis is telling her friend is digging, but this chick aint showing now signs whats so ever, i even tried to get on her but she wasnt showing no type of attractive at all, also let me add there was another chick at the lake front i invited whoes 25 and was al over me and my god sisters friend is 19 about to be 20 in 4 months

they both constantly asked if each other was my girlfriend at least 3 times

i take them to my friends and we all go to the lake front
everyone is drinking having a good time etc..my god sisters friend is all over everyone guy,am having fun not paying her to much attention just in my own lil world..than we end up at my god sisters house, i drop my guy off and the chick ends spending the night with me.... let me point i did say i was practing abstience and she threw in my face like 4 times letting me know i could get the ***** but she doesnt want to change my views some bs.. fast foward...i

i get to the crib and she takes off her pants in hops in the bed , keep in mind before we got in the crib she said dont touch me am sleepy, i didnt respond to it through.. she i try to hold her play with her ***** n shi but no go... this chick is still in my bed sleep, i still aint get no ***** wtf...

what went wrong here.. i cant figure this **** out thanx
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kraytkiller

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I think it's rather obvious...you lied about practicing abstinence (right?) and that completely ****ed you up...and it was retarded to begin with really.
 

george82

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yeah that was a stupid idea. also please learn grammar and learn how to spell.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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If you have a big brother, go ask him to beat you up!
 

Kevin Feng

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It didn't really sound like you tried gaming her at all and it seems like your interactions with her were pretty sparse.

It really depends on how you said "i'm practicing abstinence", if you said it seriously, she'll take you seriously, if you said it jokingly, she'll take it as a joke. I say I'm a virgin in field all the time in a joking playful way and girls never take it seriously, and it gives them a reason to escalate on me.

If she's in your bed with her pants off, PULL THE TRIGGER. You don't need her damn permission to start making moves, just do it and be persistent if nothing else. I'm not saying rape her, but do push the boundaries.

-Kevin
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kraykiller i agree with u to certain extent

unbridled am the big borther lol

kevin i wasnt really gaming her just chillen and having fun
now that i think about it , i think i did tell her too seriously

update

after she woke she asks me for money... first 20 than 10 than 5, i told her hell nah than dropped hr off she asked for my number than asked if i would pick her up and drop her off at my god sisters house than i told her hell nah and said shell call me anyway

yea i couldnt understand the ohte rnight at all , it all makes sense now, i've learned from it
 
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