"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wtf for the second time

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ok guys my here we go this just happened...

so my god sister calls me and ask to hang up and i agree
i pick her and her buddy up along with my friend in the car, my god sister and friend already know and **** each other moving along..
i tell the chick am practing abstinence and after that we have a ball, all night my god sis is telling her friend is digging, but this chick aint showing now signs whats so ever, i even tried to get on her but she wasnt showing no type of attractive at all, also let me add there was another chick at the lake front i invited whoes 25 and was al over me and my god sisters friend is 19 about to be 20 in 4 months

they both constantly asked if each other was my girlfriend at least 3 times

i take them to my friends and we all go to the lake front
everyone is drinking having a good time etc..my god sisters friend is all over everyone guy,am having fun not paying her to much attention just in my own lil world..than we end up at my god sisters house, i drop my guy off and the chick ends spending the night with me.... let me point i did say i was practing abstience and she threw in my face like 4 times letting me know i could get the ***** but she doesnt want to change my views some bs.. fast foward...i

i get to the crib and she takes off her pants in hops in the bed , keep in mind before we got in the crib she said dont touch me am sleepy, i didnt respond to it through.. she i try to hold her play with her ***** n shi but no go... this chick is still in my bed sleep, i still aint get no ***** wtf...

what went wrong here.. i cant figure this **** out thanx
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kraytkiller

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I think it's rather obvious...you lied about practicing abstinence (right?) and that completely ****ed you up...and it was retarded to begin with really.
 

george82

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yeah that was a stupid idea. also please learn grammar and learn how to spell.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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If you have a big brother, go ask him to beat you up!
 

Kevin Feng

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It didn't really sound like you tried gaming her at all and it seems like your interactions with her were pretty sparse.

It really depends on how you said "i'm practicing abstinence", if you said it seriously, she'll take you seriously, if you said it jokingly, she'll take it as a joke. I say I'm a virgin in field all the time in a joking playful way and girls never take it seriously, and it gives them a reason to escalate on me.

If she's in your bed with her pants off, PULL THE TRIGGER. You don't need her damn permission to start making moves, just do it and be persistent if nothing else. I'm not saying rape her, but do push the boundaries.

-Kevin
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kraykiller i agree with u to certain extent

unbridled am the big borther lol

kevin i wasnt really gaming her just chillen and having fun
now that i think about it , i think i did tell her too seriously

update

after she woke she asks me for money... first 20 than 10 than 5, i told her hell nah than dropped hr off she asked for my number than asked if i would pick her up and drop her off at my god sisters house than i told her hell nah and said shell call me anyway

yea i couldnt understand the ohte rnight at all , it all makes sense now, i've learned from it
 
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