"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WTF do i do,stalker help!

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ok long story i got this stalker (Who's a midget...no it's not funny)

Now i made a thread about this months ago,now i thought i got rid of her but she emailed me saying she's moving....so i emailed her back and said if it's not a game then good luck.

Now after a few emails i kinda said what was on my mind and told her to stop following me and trying to get attention off me like a child when she was out.

Then i got an email off her friend saying blah blah...now i'm worried that when she's out tonight her friends start....how do i go about this.

Should i

>Ignore her
>say hello
>RUN LIKE HELL!!

I don't wanna get my ass kicked by her friends....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok long story i got this stalker (Who's a midget...no it's not funny)
Yes it IS funny hahahahahahahahaha

Anyways, You can be cordial.... don't ignore her, but keep your distance, too....

Just do whatever, and if she doesn't get the hint then it is her problem. It's your life and you can either choose to have her in it, or not.....

If she starts to pose a real problem, just plain out tell her that she's nice and all but that you really aren't interested.

There's no reason for her friends to try and beat you up, and if they do... call the cops. These people are nuts, and you should get as far away as possible.
 

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Yes it IS funny hahahahahahahahaha

Anyways, You can be cordial.... don't ignore her, but keep your distance, too....

Just do whatever, and if she doesn't get the hint then it is her problem. It's your life and you can either choose to have her in it, or not.....

If she starts to pose a real problem, just plain out tell her that she's nice and all but that you really aren't interested.

There's no reason for her friends to try and beat you up, and if they do... call the cops. These people are nuts, and you should get as far away as possible.
That;s some good advice...thx man...just get a moments weakness sometimes where i feel sorry for her...but i'll try my best!
 
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