"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WTF do i do,stalker help!

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ok long story i got this stalker (Who's a midget...no it's not funny)

Now i made a thread about this months ago,now i thought i got rid of her but she emailed me saying she's moving....so i emailed her back and said if it's not a game then good luck.

Now after a few emails i kinda said what was on my mind and told her to stop following me and trying to get attention off me like a child when she was out.

Then i got an email off her friend saying blah blah...now i'm worried that when she's out tonight her friends start....how do i go about this.

Should i

>Ignore her
>say hello
>RUN LIKE HELL!!

I don't wanna get my ass kicked by her friends....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok long story i got this stalker (Who's a midget...no it's not funny)
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Yes it IS funny hahahahahahahahaha

Anyways, You can be cordial.... don't ignore her, but keep your distance, too....

Just do whatever, and if she doesn't get the hint then it is her problem. It's your life and you can either choose to have her in it, or not.....

If she starts to pose a real problem, just plain out tell her that she's nice and all but that you really aren't interested.

There's no reason for her friends to try and beat you up, and if they do... call the cops. These people are nuts, and you should get as far away as possible.
 
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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Yes it IS funny hahahahahahahahaha

Anyways, You can be cordial.... don't ignore her, but keep your distance, too....

Just do whatever, and if she doesn't get the hint then it is her problem. It's your life and you can either choose to have her in it, or not.....

If she starts to pose a real problem, just plain out tell her that she's nice and all but that you really aren't interested.

There's no reason for her friends to try and beat you up, and if they do... call the cops. These people are nuts, and you should get as far away as possible.
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That;s some good advice...thx man...just get a moments weakness sometimes where i feel sorry for her...but i'll try my best!
 
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