"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WTF chick posts drama exbf bulletins on profile

MoneyManHolmes

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So there's this chick at work and we flirt all the time and she really seems into me and non-emo. I added her to my myspace and asked her out for tomorrow. Even today she was all flirty and saying she looks forward to it. But the last couple of nights she is posting this drama ish about how she misses her ex in the "20 question" type bulletins that girls always do. I think I'm gonna bail on her before the date and see what happens. What do you guys think? Would you go ahead and go out or no?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BTW I just want to get some pu$$y and say goodbye so if I can turn this emo sh** around on her and use it to my advantage, let me know how.
 

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chics get bored, its your job to get em UN-bored. PUMP & DUMP is the best approach, stop over-thinking this.
 

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Thanks for the response. I took her out on the town for a fun and quick day time date and took her home. I don't feel that much attracted to her anymore so that should make it easier. Tonight she posted a couple more of those emo things and one last one that insulted him. Ugh if I f*** her next time, which I'll try my best, Ill be sure to delete her off my list when I'm through before I become the target of her insecurity games.
 
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