"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Writing texts / letters to girls - looking for iPhone app testers

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Hi,
I don't know if this should go here, or to the Anything Else forum...

I'm working on a series of apps that help aspiring DJs with writing texts and letters to girls.

The idea, more or less, is that an app would provide a structure that wouldn't allow for rambling too much (and therefore would prevent AFCs from writing these long letters they like), and on the other hand - would provide an inspiration and some suggestions on what to write.

So - any DJs/AFCs with iPhone/iPad/iPod willing to try? Either pm me, or reply here saying what you think about the idea :)

Cheers,
Handsome_man

P.S.: I hope you won't consider this a spam - I'm not mentioning a company name, and this is the only forum I'm asking on :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm interested to at least hear more. I'm not so sure how successful an app like this would be, so I would be interested to see it.
 
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I just hope you know what you're talking about, and have fieldtested what you put in there several times.
 
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PDubb75 said:
I'm interested to at least hear more. I'm not so sure how successful an app like this would be, so I would be interested to see it.
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Noted. I'll pm you once I have something.

NorwegianDJ said:
I just hope you know what you're talking about, and have fieldtested what you put in there several times.
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That's why I'm asking fellow DJs to help me field test it :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What a horrendously bad idea. It's very easy to send an SMS to a girl. It's literally how you'd send anybody else an SMS. By creating such a program, you're violating the law of not putting the ***** on the pedestal.
 
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